Yes, even them. Especially them.
Hey girlie. It’s me. Waya Bestie.
I logged into 2026, looked around, sighed once, and started blocking.
Not out of anger.
Out of clarity.
So let’s get into it because the official word of the year is BLOCKED.
Why “Blocked” Is the Word of the Year
Blocked is not petty.
Blocked is peaceful.
Blocked is what happens when you stop explaining, stop negotiating, stop hoping people will magically become who they already showed you they are not.
Blocked is a lifestyle choice.
In 2026, we are no longer:
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Entertaining confusing energy
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Answering texts that drain us
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Keeping access open to people who treat us like an option
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Re teaching grown folks how to respect us
If it messes with your peace, your focus, or your self trust, it gets blocked. Simple.
People Waya Bestie Is Blocking in 2026
Let’s be specific because vague boundaries do not work.
1. The Almost Supporters
They like your posts sometimes.
They never show up.
They disappear when you are winning.
Blocked.
2. The “Just Checking In” Crowd
They check in when they are bored.
They vanish when you need consistency.
Blocked.
3. The Low Effort Communicators
If it takes you three days to respond but you watch every story, do not worry. I saw that too.
Blocked.
4. The Emotional Freeloaders
They dump. You listen.
You share. They disappear.
Blocked with love.
5. The People Who Get Uncomfortable When You Level Up
If your growth makes them distant, sarcastic, or shady, that is information.
Blocked.
6. Dusty Men
The ones who hype your pics like it’s their job.
Fire emojis. Heart eyes. “You so fine.”
But the moment they slide into the DMs?
“I’m not really looking for anything serious right now.”
Sir. Then why are you here.
If you want access to the visual, the energy, the vibe, the femininity, but not the responsibility, intention, or effort that comes with it…
Blocked. Immediately.
Blocking Is Not Mean, It Is Mature
Let’s normalize this.
Blocking is not about being dramatic.
Blocking is about protecting momentum.
When your life is expanding, access must be limited.
Not everyone deserves front row seats to your evolution.
Some people were meant for a season.
Some people were meant for a lesson.
Some people were meant to be muted forever.
What Happens When You Start Blocking
Here is the part nobody talks about.
When you block:
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Your mind gets quieter
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Your decisions get clearer
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Your confidence gets louder
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Your energy comes back to you
You stop reacting.
You start responding intentionally.
And suddenly, the right people find you because the wrong ones no longer have access.
Waya Bestie’s 2026 Rules
Read carefully. Screenshot if needed.
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If I have to chase clarity, it is blocked
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If I feel anxious after talking to you, it is blocked
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If I outgrow you and you resent me for it, it is blocked
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If you cross a boundary twice, it is blocked
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If you only show up when it benefits you, it is blocked
No speeches.
No closure conversations.
No essays.
Just peace.
Final Word From Waya Bestie
2026 is not about being liked.
It is about being aligned.
You are allowed to block people who had access to an old version of you.
You are allowed to choose peace over potential.
You are allowed to protect your joy without explaining yourself.
Blocked is the word.
Peace is the goal.
And bestie, we are not doubling back.
Now tell me.
Who already got blocked this year? 💗
2 comments
I approve this message Waya! 🙌
Let me get my BLOCKED list started!